Dominatrix is a woman who plays the dominant role in a BDSM (bondage - discipline - sadism - masochism) sexual encounter or relationship, sometimes in a paid or professional capacity.
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| Tribute | Submissive sending money as a "tribute" or "gift." The objective is a first in-person meeting with the dominant. | Paying a tribute fee is your first assignment to strengthen your claim of being my submissive.`"No other payment after my tribute fee." "I have been into the lifestyle for years and never break my rules for any of my sub bois." | Tribute meet-ups rarely take place at all. Tribute fee has nothing to do with any kind of commitment. Often paying a tribute results in the dominatrix disappearing permanently. | Consulting fee | One-tine payment for one-time meeting with a consultant | |
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My tribute fee is your first assignment to strengthen your claim of being my submissive i will rest assured that you're willing ready for the adventure
The tribute fee is 350 it's only one time payment for, you should be ready for the adventure session with me
350 is my tribute fee there's no any other payment for you as well as you have your toys with you, my session with you started today after you strengthen your claim to be owned by me
That's what I want you that the rules have to follow the instructions and stop arguing over it just told you there's
No any other payment for you as well as you strengthen your claim of being my submissive
The dynamics of financial domination (Fin-Dom)
Financial domination (Fin-Dom) is a specific type of BDSM where the submissive (often called a "fin-sub" or "paypig") provides money, gifts, or financial support to a dominant (often called a "fin-dom") in exchange for various forms of humiliation and degradation.
Factors affecting payment schemes in Fin-Dom
Tributes and Gifts: The simplest form involves the submissive sending money as a "tribute" or "gift" to express admiration or appreciation, or to engage in conversation with the dominant.
Wallet Draining: Some sessions involve the submissive sending increasing amounts of money during a call or interaction, effectively "draining their wallet" at the dominant's command.
Cash Meets: Some relationships involve in-person meetings where the submissive provides money directly to the dominant, possibly coupled with verbal humiliation or physical acts as agreed upon beforehand.
Paying for Expenses: Submissive might pay for the dominant's expenses like meals, coffee, or even larger bills.
Control over Finances: In some extreme cases, the dominant might be given complete control over the submissive's bank account or a portion of their earnings.
San Jose. $50 apple gift card
There's no fixed "official" cost chart for professional Dommes. It depends on your experience, location, services, and boundaries. But here's a general guideline many use when building their rates:
Basic Rate Structure (in USD or local equivalent):
Direct and indirect methods of sexual dominance are functionally equivalent. For example, the following concepts and action words appear in both sets of instructions
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